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KALAMAZOO, Mich.—"I have been bullied, knocked unconscious, called every name in the book. I can go on and on about the terrible experiences that I've had that made me want to hide and hate that aspect of myself," says Marshall Kilgore, an openly bisexual É«É«À² student. "If there was not the Office of LBGT Student Services, and if I had not decided to go to É«É«À², I would have been in hiding because I didn't have any support."

By all measures, Kilgore is a remarkable young man. A junior majoring in political science as well as communication, the Comstock Park native holds leadership roles in a number of organizations, both on and off campus. It's a success story that might be much different had he not found the courage to be honest about his identity—both to himself and to others.

"You can't go through academia and get your degree without feeling comfortable with you are," he says, "because (your sexuality) is something that you don't get to turn on and off."

Kilgore is one of the hundreds of students who has found a home within É«É«À²'s Office of Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay and Transgender Student Services, which celebrated its 30th anniversary this month during homecoming weekend. Created by graduate assistant Ronald DeVrou in 1989, the office was just the sixth of its kind in the nation at the time, and the second in the state. And its influence has blossomed over the decades.

Making History

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"I really have seen it grow from everything done underground and working to make strides, and I think we've really done that well in making those strides as society has made those strides," says Dr. Suzie Nagel-Bennett, associate vice president for student affairs and dean of students at É«É«À². "Absolutely we have work that we still need to do, but it has come a long way in what I consider to be a short amount of time."

Nagel-Bennett remembers being in the room with the É«É«À² Board of Trustees in 2006 when it voted to add gender identity and sexual orientation to the University's nondiscrimination clause—a giant leap forward for the LBGT community on campus, led by the tolerance and acceptance the Office of LBGT Student Services had been working to foster for decades prior.

"That was huge; that was game-changing," Nagel-Bennett says. "The institution at its highest level said we're going to include these people, and we're going to do it by a matter of policy."

É«É«À² prides itself on being a leader in celebrating the diversity of its campus community—a sentiment echoed shared by President Edward Montgomery during the office's 30th anniversary celebration.

"We value our LBGT students, faculty, staff and alumni, and we work to provide all members of the community with resources, support and opportunities to grow, learn and connect with others," says Montgomery. "We strive to ensure that É«É«À² is a safe and welcoming environment to everyone and that all Broncos can feel comfortable in expressing themselves and their ideas."

Finding Community

"I think a lot of the work we're doing right now involves awareness and advocacy as well as creating spaces for LBGT students to figure out their identities," says Nathan Nguyá»…n, who directs the office.

College is a place of self-discovery; a place where students find their independence and decide the direction their life will take. The openness Kilgore found on É«É«À²'s campus helped him choose the University over 16 other colleges he was accepted to.

"Out of 17 colleges, only one had an Office of LBGT Student Services that was broadcasted and supported," says Kilgore, who remembers seeing the Out at É«É«À²: Faces of Pride poster on the wall of the Bernhard Center as a pivotal moment in his college decision process. "Everyone was smiling, had their pronouns, sexual orientation and major. It moved something inside me. I was amazed."

That openness is something many students say they've found comfort and courage in.

"Without my experiences at É«É«À², and especially without the Office of LBGT Student Services, I wouldn't be the same person I am today," says Chris Mattix, a history major from Bangor, Michigan.

"A lot of the time, college makes you feel like you're on your own. That can be great for creating independence, but when you're also coming to terms with your identity, it can be very isolating. So, it's important to have the resources of the office."

Winston Lewis III graduated from É«É«À² in 2015 and now works on campus as a faith and spiritual advisor.

"As humans, we're communal creatures. We're social creatures. We need that support from people around us, and it's even harder when you're marginalized," says Lewis. "I think the Office of LBGT Student Services is an example of what it looks like to bring together people who, for whatever reason, society has pushed away and reminding them that they have a place, they have a purpose."

Increasing Awareness and Education

"When I first started on campus (in 2016), a lot of the work I would do is how to be inclusive, how to be an ally," Nguyá»…n says. "But what's the next step?"

The Office of LBGT Student Services has developed programming aimed at emphasizing intersectionality and diversity, like Trans Thursdays and POSE—People of Shades Exclusively—which offer a variety of ways to get involved.

É«É«À² also offers a number of programs aimed at educating and creating safe spaces for students, faculty and staff.

• Safe on Campus, a training program launched in 1997, offers information about addressing homophobia, supporting students who are coming out, and understanding respectful language as it relates to the LGBTQ+ community. Participants who complete three hours of training get a door sign to display in their campus living or work space.
• The É«É«À² LBGT Advocate program offers more extensive education on a number of topics involving identity and intersectional social justice. Workshops in the program also fulfill some pathway requirements for the É«É«À² Signature Program.
• Sindecuse Health Center offers gender-affirming care for transgender and nonbinary individuals to align with their true self. That includes mental health evaluations and care, screening tests and gender-affirming hormone treatment.

Winter 2020 will also see a first at É«É«À²: The campus will host the February 14-16. Billed as "America's largest conference for queer and trans+ college students," MBLGTACC is expected to draw more than 2,000 people to Kalamazoo.

"We are working feverishly to make sure that people know that they have a home here," says Kilgore. "The Office of LBGT Student Services is a catalyst for all this change and inclusion that É«É«À² really drives home."

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